Avoid Porn: How to Feel Good about You at Work

 

 

“When You Feel Good About You … Resisting Porn Is Easy!”

When You Feel Badly about You, Your Body Self Medicates the Emotional Pain. You start to feel cravings for porn.

 

 

 

This Post Uncovers Six Ways on How to Feel Good about Yourself 

1. Have Certainty
2. Find Variety
3. Care about Others
4. Make a Difference
5. Grow
6. Contribute

(these steps to Feeling Good are described below) 

Your best “Feel Good” source is doing a job well.   

Self-esteem, feeling good about yourself, centers on good work ethics.

And, your job, no matter what you do, provides you with an arena to find high self-esteem. 

When you do right by you, you actually do right by the team. At work, everything is done on a win-win basis.

If a team spirit is not in place, pull the business owner (start here first) or your supervisor aside and point out how to have a win-win atmosphere at work.

He or she will respect you for it. If your suggestion isn’t accepted at first, wait. Your idea will surface again. Don’t worry about getting credit. You initiated it. That’s all that matters.

What does this have to do with pornography?

Well … It’s One of the Six Amazing Secrets to Feeling Good.

Remember: When You Feel Good, You Resist Porn.

The Big Secret to Overcoming Porn Is Having High Self-Esteem.

One reason why porn keeps its hold on you is because it kills your self-esteem. When you feel badly about yourself, you lose the will to resist porn.

Strangely enough, one of the best sources for High self-esteem is on the job. Well, you may be thinking, “I Hate My Job.” I understand, I felt the same way; until, I change the meaning of work.

My Meaning for Work: It is my way of earning money for my family; and equally important, My work is my way of increasing my self-esteem. When I do well at work, I feel good about me. Feeling Good about me is My Power Against Porn.

Here’s the key. When you keep your head clear of porn, you feel good about you. You are clear when you focus on feeling good about you. Note: never ever, ever, ever, put yourself down. It’s not a sign of humility. It’s madness. You Kill Your Spirit (the will to do good).   

 The enthusiasm you experience from making a difference actually gives you power to resist porn.

When porn cravings come back (they will), you compare the two feelings: the self-loathing emotions you feel from viewing porn; or, the enthusiastic, fantastic emotions you experience from a job well done.   

You Choose Feeling Good About You. YOU RESIST PORN.

 

The 6 Amazing Secrets to Feeling Good

    (The 6 secrets are described in the First Person for your personalization.)

     Confess these words:

     I highly esteem me when…  

1. I Have Certainty. I feel good about me when I know who I am. I find clarity in everything I do. When I know what’s important to me, I pursue my dreams. Linking my standards, goals, values and business plans to my dreams, I have certainty. I become enthused about work.   
2. I Enjoy Variety. I feel good about me when I have fun seeking continuous and never-ending improvement. Searching for new and better ways to enjoy life, I focus on how I can make my business and personal life pleasurable. I keep work new. I add variety to my life. I stay enthused one day at a time.
3. I Care. I feel good about me when I care about other people’s feelings. Humility is the key to a profitable business. Sometimes, the higher good of the company means I don’t always have to be right. Empowering others helps all.
4. I Make a Difference. I feel good about me when I am needed. I know I am important when others seek my help. Also, I know I am significant when I go beyond expectations. Yet, because I’m worth it; I live a balance life. I go home when it’s time. Rest revitalizes my cognitive abilities for work and play.
5. I Grow. I feel good about me when I set goals and write plans. As I work my plan, I grow one step at a time. Eventually, I attain my goals. I experience an incredible high with each incremental accomplishment. I stay enthused when I grow as an individual in the workplace. My personal life is better for it.  
6. I Contribute. I feel good about me when I share my gift, talents and skills to a special cause. When I help others, I matter. My life has meaning. I have purpose. Consequently, I do better at work. I have balance in my life.    

When you feel good about you, you don’t want to lose that feeling. Porn loses its drawing power.

These 6 Amazing Secrets can be used in all areas of your life. Because you spend so much time at work, this is the best place to start.

Protect your self-esteem. Feeling Good about yourself is your Power.

Empowering emotions block cravings for porn, every time.

Feel Good,

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