Have you ever noticed, when you make simple everyday decisions, you forget to include others into your plans?
Observing children, I’ve noticed how a child decides the next fun thing to do. I discovered that it’s all about what they individually want to do; not what everyone might consider doing.
A child just goes with the first immediate impulse. They feel something; they immediately respond to it, usually, in his own interest.
Have you been selfish lately? How long has it been since you masturbated?
Keep track of the time line. It takes two weeks or longer for dominate selfish thinking to subside, and unselfish behavior to regain control.
People are caught up in self-gratification for so long; they don’t know they act selfishly in public. Pay attention to your thought flow and how quickly you respond to your thoughts. Then, evaluate the response.
Go for 6 weeks without masturbation and see the change in your personality.
Keep a journal on your findings. You may be surprised.