How to Seek Freedom from Pornography


How do I seek freedom from pornography?


The harder you seek, the more distance

you create between freedom and you.


So what do I do about the distance?


You understand that it isn’t there.


Does that mean I and freedom are one?


Not one. Not two.


What does that mean?


“The sun and its light, the ocean and the

wave, the singer and his song—not one.

Not Two” (De Mello, 1987, p. 33).


You focus on freedom and sing your song.



De Mello, A. (1987, April). One minute wisdom. (4th ed.). Lonavia, India: Anand Press.

Published by: curepornaddiction

In the year 1971 I became a store manager at age 19. I discovered I had a gift for mentoring. I gave one on one coaching, instruction and teaching with ease. And, I loved it. However, I had a problem that held me back from achieving my full potential. I was addicted to porn. When I was going through my puberty years in life, I found pornography (adult magazines) in my Dad's closet. I was hooked. I had my ups and downs throughout my life: Ups, when I was off of porn and using my gift: and, Downs, when I was using porn. Porn captured my attention, holding me back. I found the secrets to breaking free from porn. Like anyone else, I have to work at keeping my emotions positive, every day, to stay free. Limiting emotions--fear, doubt, hate, lust, sloth, pride, any emotion that kills joy. Joy is the ultimate weapon against porn. You have it; porn loses its hold on you. I dedicate this blog to those who are looking for ways to end pornography in their life. To Your Peace, Power and Plenty, Dale P.S. The picture above is not me. The photo represents all families free from pornography.

Categories How to, Overcoming Pornography Addiction, RecoveryTags, 2 Comments

2 thoughts on “How to Seek Freedom from Pornography”

  1. Thanks for this post. Being married to a recovering addict who’s under the GreatnessAhead program, I could so relate your posts. I know that with my full support and love, as well as his determination, we can fight porn for good.

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