6 Mysterious Steps to Stop a Relapse

Pornography: 6 Mysterious Steps to Stopping Porn Triggers

  1.  Enjoy passing sexual feelings: For me, the key is not to focus on an arousal but allow it to pass. Feeling good is all right; conjuring up thoughts and images to keep it going causes me to view porn in the future.
  2. Spring back:  In passing, if I objectify someone as sexy, I immediately rebound (bounce my eyes) away from that person.  Starving my eyes helps me resist porn.
  3. Look Down:  Out and about, when I am at the mall, retail store, or grocery, I look at the floor, six feet ahead.  Doing so, the need to bounce my eyes from someone is less frequent.  I strengthen my resolve for abstinence from porn.
  4. Stop Masturbation: For me, when I stopped masturbating, pornography had less a hold on sexual impulses.
  5. Remove Erectile Dysfunction(ED): In the last 12 months, I have slipped two times.  I went online and looked at porn.  Both times, the experience was brief but eye-opening.  I asked, “Why am I trying to become aroused by looking at the anatomy of human bodies (men and women)?”  I also could not get an erection.  I was having ED.  I clicked off the internet.  Also, in the last 12 months I masturbated twice; both times, I experienced ED.  Trying to achieve an organism without full arousal takes a very long time. 
  6. Results:  Because I stopped masturbation and viewing porn, I no longer have ED.  Arousal is intense; however, I keep hands off.

Thanks,

Richard

Published by: curepornaddiction

In the year 1971 I became a store manager at age 19. I discovered I had a gift for mentoring. I gave one on one coaching, instruction and teaching with ease. And, I loved it. However, I had a problem that held me back from achieving my full potential. I was addicted to porn. When I was going through my puberty years in life, I found pornography (adult magazines) in my Dad's closet. I was hooked. I had my ups and downs throughout my life: Ups, when I was off of porn and using my gift: and, Downs, when I was using porn. Porn captured my attention, holding me back. I found the secrets to breaking free from porn. Like anyone else, I have to work at keeping my emotions positive, every day, to stay free. Limiting emotions--fear, doubt, hate, lust, sloth, pride, any emotion that kills joy. Joy is the ultimate weapon against porn. You have it; porn loses its hold on you. I dedicate this blog to those who are looking for ways to end pornography in their life. To Your Peace, Power and Plenty, Dale P.S. The picture above is not me. The photo represents all families free from pornography.

Categories Masturbation, Recovery, relapseTags, , , 2 Comments

2 thoughts on “6 Mysterious Steps to Stop a Relapse”

  1. Whatever works for you, dude! I don’t like to look down, though. Otherwise, good advice and I’m glad you have ED cured.

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