Pornography: Breaking News; It’s Worth Doing Wrong

As you keep reading this web page you are feeling more and more empowered to be yourself.

“If a thing’s worth doing,

It’s worth doing badly.”

—G. K. Chesterton

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Imagine what it would be like if you could stop being perfect and enjoy the place where you arrive.

Parents, teachers, or significant others may push us to get ahead, come in first place, excel, land the best job, or work hard to have the most money.  A problem exists with this line of reasoning.

There are losers and stress.

Because we do not achieve, we may experience shame, anxiety, depression or low self-worth.

What does frustration do to recovery?  Negative energy exacerbates pornography addiction.

Viewing porn becomes a way to relieve the stressful feelings.

Forget other people’s standards.

Stop judging yourself.

Wherever you place in the race, even last, is perfect.

Three Steps to Sobriety

When you ever feel something triggering you, answer 3 questions:

  1. Focus: What triggering thoughts am I seeing; what do I change?
  2. Dialogue: What triggering words did I use; what words do I change?
  3. Mannerism: What is my physiology; am I behaving confidently?

 Meditation

A Prayer of the Porn Addict (a Quinzaine Poem):

Preserve me with sound judgment

Using discernment

I am safe

Proverbs 3:21 – 24

21 My son, let not them depart from thine eyes: keep sound wisdom and discretion:

22 So shall they be life unto thy soul, and grace to thy neck.

23 Then shalt thou walk in thy way safely, and thy foot shall not stumble.

24 When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid: yea, thou shalt lie down, and thy sleep shall be sweet. (King James Version, public domain)

Thanks,

Dale

 

 

 

 

Published by: curepornaddiction

In the year 1971 I became a store manager at age 19. I discovered I had a gift for mentoring. I gave one on one coaching, instruction and teaching with ease. And, I loved it. However, I had a problem that held me back from achieving my full potential. I was addicted to porn. When I was going through my puberty years in life, I found pornography (adult magazines) in my Dad's closet. I was hooked. I had my ups and downs throughout my life: Ups, when I was off of porn and using my gift: and, Downs, when I was using porn. Porn captured my attention, holding me back. I found the secrets to breaking free from porn. Like anyone else, I have to work at keeping my emotions positive, every day, to stay free. Limiting emotions--fear, doubt, hate, lust, sloth, pride, any emotion that kills joy. Joy is the ultimate weapon against porn. You have it; porn loses its hold on you. I dedicate this blog to those who are looking for ways to end pornography in their life. To Your Peace, Power and Plenty, Dale P.S. The picture above is not me. The photo represents all families free from pornography.

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