Who is this for and why am I doing this?

I am 7 years out from the decision to divorce my porn-addicted spouse. It was the best decision I ever made and I haven’t looked back for even a second, but it was an incredibly hard road to travel and it felt like there were no resources for someone like me at the time. I doesn’t seem much better now.

I have thought many times about creating a safe place for people who are leaving porn-addict spouses to talk and help each other get through this difficult time. There are plenty of resources out there for partners who want to stay and try to save their marriages. If that is what you are looking for, then I say, please go to one of those places. There are few places I can find where people can speak frankly about the process of leaving with others who will really understand. I hope…