As you absorb the reasons why pornography is so compelling, you begin to understand why porn controls your mind (decisions) and how you stop caring about the risky consequences of pornography.
Psychologically, the beliefs that the culture has accepted has made sex something that it is not. For example, sex is
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These limiting beliefs made being sexually active more compelling.
Many individuals turn to pornography because it is readily available at any moment needed.
Pornography is compelling because the euphoric highs and the exhilarating feelings almost make it impossible to set limits.
These experiences wipe away reality. People want more and more to the point of dangerous consequences. They have fallen into a sexual addiction that follows them into social settings.
Some of us grew up believing sex outside of marriage was a horrible sin.
Loving sexual experiences are for lasting commitments. Enjoying one another in blissful love is a gift from God.
Trying to avoid sexual feelings only exasperates the natural functions of the body, mind, heart. and soul. Pent up emotion makes sex a grappling temptation.
Arousal feelings (sexual) come and go.
These sensations are okay.
They feel good, don’t they?
An individual simply allows the body to process the feelings or sensations.
Focusing on sustaining sexual sensations may lead to unwanted consequences; unless, a person is lovingly connecting with someone.
What happens when sex becomes a compulsive exercise?
With pornography, the euphoria feels great now but awful later because it is unnatural.
“The gift of sex is spiritual.”
Booth, L. (1989). Sin. Say yes to your sexual healing; daily meditations for sex addiction. p. 22. Deerfield Beach; FL: Health Communications. Retrieve from https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=leo+booth+books.