Are you ready to win every time?
Ask yourself this question, “Wouldn’t it be great to beat porn at its own game.
Keep on reading. You find tools to Winning every time you use them.
Sexual feelings help you overcome
porn addiction, if you know what their purpose are.
Let’s review what you’ve accomplished, thus far.
You’ve discovered your purpose: what’s really important to you and how pornography is preventing you from having it.
You’ve discovered how to change by associating massive amounts of pain to not stopping pornography immediately (Now) and massive amounts of pleasure to stopping porn now.
You’ve uncovered how repetition is the mother of conditioning. Ending pornography now, you use empowering emotions to eradicate limiting feelings to break the relapse pattern with pornography.
You’ve experienced how the pain/pleasure principle is the power source for long-term change, the force that rules your life. You always move away from pain toward pleasure, whether it’s perceived or real. Outrageous Love causes intense pleasure to move away from porn.
Sexual feelings are meant to be used not ignored. Sexual sensations empower a loving relationship not limit. Associate them to loving your soul mate.
Experiment: The Pain and Pleasure principle doesn’t change. How you apply the Pain and Focus on the Pleasure is entirely up to you; so experiment till you get desired results.
Principles are universal. The application of those principles is a matter of choice.
Find what application works best for you.
Take the principles in each one of these Top 10 Tips to Overcoming
Pornography Addiction and make them work for you.
Try the illustrations provided for you in each exercise. It’s your choice. You make the application of a princible better.
When you apply the principle and it doesn’t quite work for you, don’t say, “This doesn’t work.” Instead ask, “How can I tweak the application of the principle and make it work for me?”
Test. Test. Test it!
Test everything you do. Don’t change the principle, adjust the application.
You make every thing in this eBook better. Take the liberty and make changes.
Empower yourself. Choose what works best for you and ACT!
Understanding comes to all those who do. The Top 10 Tips to Overcoming Pornography work best for those who work the exercises in each section till they work.
Then, test the application, pay attention to how your body’s responses.
If you feel cravings for porn, then simply adjust your approach, until the craving leaves you.
Note: Don’t beat yourself up if you feel a craving to view porn (this is only a condition response).
Now, you are conditioning yourself to not to view porn. It takes time to rid self of porn cravings.
Caution: don’t view porn to see whether principles work or not, because seeing (viewing) conditions the body to want porn. Allowing indecent images in your mind and hearing explicit sounds into your thoughts and masturbating, your body will crave what you do now.
Test pain and pleasure principles by experiencing life; how you react to sexual feelings on a day by day basis.
It took me more than 40 years to understand how my body communicates with me. Now, I understand when I see something sexually stimulating and my stomach knots up, my body is alerting me.
Chest constricting, neck tightening and slight tension in the middle of my brow are some of the ways my body communicates, so I take the necessary steps to block the stimulus. I shift my thoughts by associating the feelings to loving my soul mate. Saying, “I love you.” Then, I act confidently.
If I experience sexual feelings, while I’m thinking about my soul mate, I don’t get the same warning signals in my gut, neck, chest as I do with inappropriate stimulus. Lovingly thinking about my soul mate, I feel warm feelings associated with a loving joyful peace.
Right now: Test It!
Imagine a porn-trigger that use to set you off. Do you feel any effects of that trigger? Do you feel any cravings to view pornography? If you feel sexual stimulation during the test, just read through the P.U.R.P.O.S.E. Tips in the Outline of this eBook.
Then close your eyes and pray, “Lord, which one of the P.U.R.P.O.S.E. Tips do I need to revisit.”
Keeping your eyes closed, wait for the answer. The one you need will come to you.
Later, learn how your beliefs overcome pornography.
In the Next Chapter Discover How Empowering Beliefs Fused with Intense Pleasure Overcome Pornography….
To your Peace, Power and Plenty,