Free E-Book on Pornography: Chapter 7: How Badly Do You Want a Fresh Approach?

Are you ready to win every time?

Ask yourself this question, “Wouldn’t it be great to beat porn at its own game.

Keep on reading.  You find tools to Winning every time you use them.

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We Are Here to Help.

 

 Sexual feelings help you overcome

porn addiction, if you know what their purpose are.

Let’s review what you’ve accomplished, thus far.

You’ve discovered your purpose: what’s really important to you and how pornography is preventing you from having it.

You’ve discovered how to change by associating massive amounts of pain to not stopping pornography immediately (Now) and massive amounts of pleasure to stopping porn now.

You’ve uncovered how repetition is the mother of conditioning. Ending pornography now, you use empowering emotions to eradicate limiting feelings to break the relapse pattern with pornography.

You’ve experienced how the pain/pleasure principle is the power source for long-term change, the force that rules your life. You always move away from pain toward pleasure, whether it’s perceived or real. Outrageous Love causes intense pleasure to move away from porn.

Sexual feelings are meant to be used not ignored. Sexual sensations empower a loving relationship not limit. Associate them to loving your soul mate.

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Experiment: The Pain and Pleasure principle doesn’t change. How you apply the Pain and Focus on the Pleasure is entirely up to you; so experiment till you get desired results.

Principles are universal. The application of those principles is a matter of choice.

Find what application works best for you.

Take the principles in each one of these Top 10 Tips to Overcoming
Pornography Addiction and make them work for you.

Try the illustrations provided for you in each exercise. It’s your choice. You make the application of a princible better.

When you apply the principle and it doesn’t quite work for you, don’t say, “This doesn’t work.” Instead ask, “How can I tweak the application of  the principle and make it work for me?”

Test. Test. Test it!

Test everything you do. Don’t change the principle, adjust the application.
You make every thing in this eBook better. Take the liberty and make changes.

Empower yourself. Choose what works best for you and ACT!

Understanding comes to all those who do. The Top 10 Tips to Overcoming Pornography work best for those who work the exercises in each section till they work.

Then, test the application, pay attention to how your body’s responses.

If you feel cravings for porn, then simply adjust your approach, until the craving leaves you.

Note: Don’t beat yourself up if you feel a craving to view porn (this is only a condition response).

Now, you are conditioning yourself to not to view porn. It takes time to rid self of porn cravings.

Caution: don’t view porn to see whether principles work or not, because seeing (viewing) conditions the body to want porn.  Allowing indecent images in your mind and hearing explicit sounds into your thoughts and masturbating, your body will crave what you do now.

Test pain and pleasure principles by experiencing life; how you react to sexual feelings on a day by day basis.

It took me more than 40 years to understand how my body communicates with me. Now, I understand when I see something sexually stimulating and my stomach knots up, my body is alerting me.

Chest constricting, neck tightening and slight tension in the middle of my brow are some of the ways my body communicates, so I take the necessary steps to block the stimulus. I shift my thoughts by associating the feelings to loving my soul mate. Saying, “I love you.” Then, I act confidently.

If I experience sexual feelings, while I’m thinking about my soul mate, I don’t get the same warning signals in my gut, neck, chest as I do with inappropriate stimulus. Lovingly thinking about my soul mate, I feel warm feelings associated with a loving joyful peace.

Right now: Test It!

Imagine a porn-trigger that use to set you off. Do you feel any effects of that trigger? Do you feel any cravings to view pornography? If you feel sexual stimulation during the test, just read through the P.U.R.P.O.S.E. Tips in the Outline of this eBook.

Then close your eyes and pray, “Lord, which one of the P.U.R.P.O.S.E. Tips do I need to revisit.”

Keeping your eyes closed, wait for the answer. The one you need will come to you.

Later, learn how your beliefs overcome pornography.

In the Next Chapter Discover How Empowering Beliefs Fused with Intense Pleasure Overcome Pornography….

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Together We Can Overcome. Seek Support Groups or Therapy Help.

 

To your Peace, Power and Plenty,

Dale

8 thoughts on “Free E-Book on Pornography: Chapter 7: How Badly Do You Want a Fresh Approach?”

  1. LAST NIGHT MY PASTOR BROUGHT A SIMPLE MESSAGE WITH HIS TEXT BASED ON THE STORY OF SAMPSON. HE TALKED ABOUR THE INSTANCE WHERE SAMPSON TOOK HONEY FROM THE LIONS CARCASS. ALL I KEPT THINKING WAS FOCUS, WORDS, ACTION. HAD SAMPSON FOCUSED ON THE LIONS CARCASS HE WOULD HAVE LOST HIS APPETITE FOR THE HONEY, BUT HIS FOCUS WAS ON THE HONEY CAUSING HIM TO IGNORE THE FACT IT WAS IN THE LIONS CARCASS. TODAY I CHOOSE TO FOCUS ON THE GOOD THINGS IN LIFE NOT THE DEAD THINGS LYING THERE AS A RESULT OF MY ACTIONS. IF YOU WILL LET GOD HE CAN TURN THESE DEAD GOOD FOR NOTHING THINGS INTO SOMETHING SWEET AND NOURISHING. HOWEVER, THAT CAN ONLY HAPPEN IF YOU DONT FOCUS ON THE DEAD THINGS IN FRONT OF YOU. INSTEAD FOCUS ON GOD AND LET HIM BRING GOODNESS OUT OF NOTHINGNESS.

  2. Hi Kit,

    Wow!
    Simple.
    To the point.
    Profound.
    I can tell your focus has shifted to the good.
    While focusing on God, focus on his magnificent creation.
    Focus on all the talents and skills he instilled in you.
    Thank God for making you God’s gift to the world. This is not prideful.
    This is humility. Without God, you would not be a gift.

    You told me about the mission field. My advice: Go For It!
    God wants to use the gifts he blessed you with to bless others.

    Kit, you have greatness in you. Believe in you. God does.
    Would you agree, God knows what he’s doing.

    Peace.
    P.S. Did you accept the man’s offer to facilitate the addiction class at your church?

    1. YES SIR I ACCEPTED THE MANS OFFER TO HELP WITH THE CLASS, IM ALSO TEACHING THE ADULT SUNDAY SCHOOL CLASS TOMORROW. THIS WEEK HAS BEEN A COSTANT BATTLE SO IM PUMPED SOMETHINGS ON THE HORIZON!!

      1. Hi Kit,

        Great job, helping out with the classes;
        The teacher benefits more than the students (they benefit as well).

        When the battle comes, I classify it has “The Secret Forces.”
        The Secret Forces know what you want to do, so they speak fear and doubt to you and trigger other people’s thoughts to interrupt you. These people can be good people, but impulsively ask you for your time.

        Choose wisely where you want to invest your time. Stay relaxed and calm so you mind can work for God.

        Peace,
        Dale

  3. FACE TO FACE, CHEST TO CHEST, BREATH TO BREATH,
    STANDS TWO FOES IN DEFIANT POSE,
    WISHING TO WITNESS THE OTHERS DEATH,
    PURE HOSTILITY, THE BATTLE OF ME VS. ME, WHO I AM AGAINST WHO I SHOULD BE,
    IF WHO I AM SHOULD WIN ITS THE END OF ME,
    IT WILL GIVE RISE TO PRIDE AND ARROGANCY,
    IF WHO I SHOULD BE SHOULD TRIUMPH VICTORIOUSLY,
    IT MEANS A LIFE OF SERVITUDE AND HUMILITY,
    ALL STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES EXPOSED,
    AS I FACE MYSELF PASSIONATELY,
    NOSE TO NOSE, TOE TO TOE,
    DETERMINED IN DEFIANT POSE.

    1. Hey Kit,

      This poem is great.
      It perfectly describes the battle between the physical and spiritual dimensions of man.
      If the physical serves the spiritual, then there’s peace.

      I love it!

      Thanks,
      Dale

  4. HEY BROTHER JUST CHECKING IN. IM NOT FEELING WELL SO IM GOING TO GO SHORTLY JUST KEEPING IN TOUCH. JUST WANT TO SAY BEFORE I DO, I SERIOUSLY FEEL LIKE IVE BEEN UNLOCKED AND I KNOW TO MOST THAT MAKES NO SENSE BUT I THINK YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT IM SAYING. I FEEL A DRAW TOWARDS GREATNESS AND A NAGGING QUESTION ASKING ARE YOU READY TO PAY THE PRICE? THIS IS WHERE THE RUBBER MEETS THE ROAD THIS IS WHERE THE FRONT LINES ARE AND THIS IS WHERE IVE WAVERED. ITS ALWAYS EASY TO SAY OF COURSE BUT DOING IS A DIFFERENT BALL GAME I WANT IT I MUST SHOW CONSISTENCY FROM THE MOST SIMPLE THINGS THEN TO THE GREATEST

  5. Hey Kit,

    Great Post!

    May I give you a pointer. Change the meaning on moving toward greatness. It’s infinitely easier to move toward greatness than to stay mediocre.

    Mediocre people do anything that feels good (such as porn). THESE PEOPLE PAY THE PRICE. Their lives are difficult to live.

    Follow your gift to greatness and live an easy life.

    Kit, congratulations on all of your accomplishments!!!

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